Yup the title sums it up. We have all had it happen at one point in our lives, and well I am going through the exact steps now.
A friend, a best one...OR so I thought. Lets take a moment to see an exact definition of the word friend shall we..."a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations."https://www.google.com/search?q=Defination+of+friend&oq=Defination+of+friend&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.4281j0j7&sourceid=chrome&espv=210&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8#q=Defination+of+friend
A friend to me is:
* Someone who is there for you
* Someone you can count on
* Someone who cares about you, and you equally care about them
* Someone whom you put as a priority in your life.
In my honest opinion it takes a special kind of someone to be considered a friend rather than an acquaintance, I consider myself to have a ton of acquaintances but not even a handful of friends. One of which I am seriously beginning to consider.
I have been friends with this person for the last 6 years, a person whom I have trusted with my deepest, darkest secrets, someone I have allowed to be a part of my children's lives and essentially someone I was proud to call my friend. This person and I have been through sheer HELL, we have crossed the fire and survived together, and its hard to believe that in an instant, it could, and probably is...OVER.
I have always had said person as a front runner in my life, never putting a boyfriend, a job, or well...to be honest anything between the two of us. I have been their in ways for this person that no-one else ever has. At a period in my life I, and my family, have supported, taken in, put in the front of the line, fed, clothed, supplied a roof over her head, and bent over backwards to help, at times when her own family: cast her aside, kicked her out, took ever single last dime she has had and when they left her in a point of no return. I, and my family have done all of this, not to be repaid, not for praise, but out of love, care and hey think about it...That's what "friends" do.
So you may be asking...Anxious girl, what did one do to piss you off so badly?
Well dear readers my answer to you is....Lie to my children, oh that's right. You can dismay me in this life all you choose, you can slander me, belittle me, lie to me, whatever makes you feel better....BUT I'll be damned if you do it to my babies. DO NOT tell my children that you are going to do something for them and turn your story around. DO NOT claim to love them and care about them, when everything you do points otherwise.
Short back ground. She claims to be the "godmother" of my kids, But if she cant make time for them now, how will she make time for them if something happens to me and my husband? My point exactly!
Sorry this journal entry turned into more of a bitch fest, but you know...Sometimes you just gotta let it out.
Until next time.....
A friend, a best one...OR so I thought. Lets take a moment to see an exact definition of the word friend shall we..."a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations."https://www.google.com/search?q=Defination+of+friend&oq=Defination+of+friend&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.4281j0j7&sourceid=chrome&espv=210&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8#q=Defination+of+friend
A friend to me is:
* Someone who is there for you
* Someone you can count on
* Someone who cares about you, and you equally care about them
* Someone whom you put as a priority in your life.
In my honest opinion it takes a special kind of someone to be considered a friend rather than an acquaintance, I consider myself to have a ton of acquaintances but not even a handful of friends. One of which I am seriously beginning to consider.
I have been friends with this person for the last 6 years, a person whom I have trusted with my deepest, darkest secrets, someone I have allowed to be a part of my children's lives and essentially someone I was proud to call my friend. This person and I have been through sheer HELL, we have crossed the fire and survived together, and its hard to believe that in an instant, it could, and probably is...OVER.
I have always had said person as a front runner in my life, never putting a boyfriend, a job, or well...to be honest anything between the two of us. I have been their in ways for this person that no-one else ever has. At a period in my life I, and my family, have supported, taken in, put in the front of the line, fed, clothed, supplied a roof over her head, and bent over backwards to help, at times when her own family: cast her aside, kicked her out, took ever single last dime she has had and when they left her in a point of no return. I, and my family have done all of this, not to be repaid, not for praise, but out of love, care and hey think about it...That's what "friends" do.
So you may be asking...Anxious girl, what did one do to piss you off so badly?
Well dear readers my answer to you is....Lie to my children, oh that's right. You can dismay me in this life all you choose, you can slander me, belittle me, lie to me, whatever makes you feel better....BUT I'll be damned if you do it to my babies. DO NOT tell my children that you are going to do something for them and turn your story around. DO NOT claim to love them and care about them, when everything you do points otherwise.
Short back ground. She claims to be the "godmother" of my kids, But if she cant make time for them now, how will she make time for them if something happens to me and my husband? My point exactly!
Sorry this journal entry turned into more of a bitch fest, but you know...Sometimes you just gotta let it out.
Until next time.....
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